I feel like my personality has changed! I'm one of those people who gets along with everyone, I'm hyper, outgoing, extremely funny, I speak my mind and what not. I guess I'm the life of the party. Well last Thursday I went on a movie date with this guy that I like and I acted like myself! I only met him once and talked for 30 minutes with him and he instantly liked me. I gave off a really good first impression. Anyways, I acted like myself on this date and when I went back to school I talked to him again and I acted like myself. Well starting on Monday I've been acting weird and my humor is kinda off.. I just don't feel like myself. I feel like my personality is changing and this guy already likes me and I like him and if I start acting different from what I was acting like then I'm probably going to lose him and my friends.. Maybe it's because I'm thinking about it waaaay too much? I'm kinda scared and I don't want to change who I was in the beginning! I've never felt like this before, where I started to act strange and not like myself. Can someone please give me advice on how to get through with feeling like this? I'm just simply not feeling like myself this week and I'm starting to get scared as to if I can ever get back to the old me :c
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I think you change somehow because you are affected by someone and it has effects in one's attitude or personality but it's normal. I suggest you must control your emotions. When controlled, they’re beneficial, enabling you to develop warm friendships. Unrestrained, your emotions can be destructive, not only to you but also to those around you.
True, on occasion you will likely say or do things that you later regret. But be patient. In time, you’ll learn to control your emotions so that your emotions do not control you.
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Thank you for taking the time to read my question! It's just that I've never felt like this before and I can slowly feel myself acting diffrent then what I usually act like. It's just making me scared as to what's to come in the future if I keep being like this. I'll take your answer to heart, thank you!