There is this girl in my school who was always harsh to me even though i dont remember doing anything bad to her.She wouldnt like it when i talk to her friends, if i asked any questions to her friends that girl would be like why are you answering to her questions?this was one incident, the other incident was when i was cracking jokes with one of my friend this girl comes up to us and asks my friend "why are you friends with her"?there was another incident were a friend of mine came to visit me and my friends and this girl and her group friends came to see her, everything went fine and then all of a sudden this girl tells my friend "this bitch is here" my friend didnt understand whom she was referring to and then one of the girls from that girl's side said "oh she is referring to her and pointed at me" my friends were offended but kept quiet and so did i, but later i confronted one of her friends that i dont like what she is doing and the next day when that girl saw me pass by she called me bitch again! From my perspective it looks more like jealousy rather than hatred, my sister told me that she might be jealous , but i dont understand the reason why? i was never academically successful i always had below average grades and i was never considered the prettiest girl in school, some of my friends consider me pretty and my sister finds me pretty not because she is my sister its because she always speaks her mind, could be be that she finds me attractive and is jealous of it,but that doesnt make sense because there are many pretty girls in school, way prettier than me and she is not like that with them,, what do you think folks?
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You know, there could be another explanation behind this. Yes, it sounds like jealousy, it seems like that is the case, she could be jealous of your friends, or your family?
Some people feel like they have to be mean to others, to boost their own self-confidence. Maybe she has fake friends, or that something is bad at home? It could also be that she is horrible at making new friends, and wants to befriend you, but doesn't know how, so she is mean to you just to get your attention? It could be many different explanations behind this, but from what you are explaning, it seems like pure jealousy, but she probably has a hard time with something else, so just be sure to be a bit nice to her, turn her the other cheek, it will either help her, or piss her off. So, it's a win-win situation, right?