Is it okay for a 19 year old guy to be a virgin? I'm the only one of my friends that hasn't done it yet and as much as they tell me that that's not true, I can't help but not believe them. I'm not a virgin for religious reasons or anything, I just haven't done it yet. I have done other stuff with a girl before though. I'm not the type to go around trying every girl that I can. I often hear "your time will come". I just wonder why I'm not one of the normal people that had their "time" while they were still pretty young. (I will know what I'm doing when I do it though, I'm sure I won't be lost)