Is it okay for a 19 year old guy to be a virgin? I'm the only one of my friends that hasn't done it yet and as much as they tell me that that's not true, I can't help but not believe them. I'm not a virgin for religious reasons or anything, I just haven't done it yet. I have done other stuff with a girl before though and I have talked to girls on a more-than-friends level we, just never had sex. (I didn't try and get rejected, we just never did). I'm not the type to go around trying every girl that I can. I often hear "your time will come". I just wonder why I'm not one of the normal people that had their "time" while they were still pretty young. (I will know what I'm doing when I do it though, I'm sure I won't be lost)...Is there something wrong with me? Am I doomed forever, seeing how I'm not a normal teenager?
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That is not weird at all! And no, your not doomed for eternity. Your friend is probably right. Your time WILL come, you just have to wait for that special girl.There is nothing wrong with being 19 and a virgin. I know a 37 year old virgin, and hes a great guy xD. I feel bad for him, but it is the way it is. I lost my virginity when I was 16, and that was MUCH later than the rest of my friends and family, but you shouldn't be focused on how old you are. You should be focused on who you are and who you want. I believe there is someone out there for every one and I'd bet money that you will find a beautiful girl and have amazing memories together. Life isn't always about sex hun,
Don't sweat it. You'll be perfectly fine. I promise c: