Well there is this guy that I am really intrigued by and attracted to that I see walking through the hallways sometimes. I don't know anything about him besides the beauty of his face and I don't think we have ever even had eye contact. I plan to approach him by saying "hello" and telling him that I see him around and I really like his unique sense of style. If he says thank you and doesn't seem too weirded out I will tell him my name and then ask for his. Then I will ask if he is in a rush to get to class and if he says no hopefully the conversation will continue. Do you think this approach is okay? Not to forceful or strange? Because it seems like he could possibly be shy and I don't want to scare him or repulse him too badly :) I'm also really nervous so if anyone has any pointers on calming my nerves before I do it that would be great. Thank you!
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just maybe "accidently" drop something in front of him, and if he doesn't bother to help you then he's probably not worth your time. but if he does just smile and simply say "hey thanks" or something along those lines. introduce yourself and start a conversation with him. give him a few compliments but not too many. and if he looks like he doesn't want to talk it would probably be best to stop talking at that point and maybe talk to him later. and if you're nervous at first just count to 3 and then do it, because it doesn't give you enough time to over think it. hope that helped even a little :) good luck with it
just maybe "accidently" drop something in front of him, and if he doesn't bother to help you then he's probably not worth your time. but if he does just smile and simply say "hey thanks" or something along those lines. introduce yourself and start a conversation with him. give him a few compliments but not too many. and if he looks like he doesn't want to talk it would probably be best to stop talking at that point and maybe talk to him later. and if you're nervous at first just count to 3 and then do it, because it doesn't give you enough time to over think it. hope that helped even a little :) good luck with it
I didn't mean to add that twice oops ¯\_(ツ)_/¯