I'm a 13 year old girl and I start eighth grade September 1st. I'm scared out of my mind. For one thing I have no idea how to be 13. When am I supporsed to start plucking my eyebrows? Are people going to avoide me because I don't have a face book? Am I too old to be playing with barbies? And I don't think I'm very pretty. Is it possible to get dislexia at an older age? Because I'll look at a sign that says grab our drapes and I'll think it says drag out gapes. Why is it that when I go to the beach I see everything kinda blueish out of one eye? And what I really wanna ask is is there something wrong with me? I've never kissed a guy let alone dated. I'm rather on the random side and my best friends are like me too. But the thing is people make fun of me but not my friends. They think I'm weird some call me names. Others don't wanna stand next to me. Some won't sign my yearbook. Am I just paranoid? I'm still stuck on cartoon network and nick at nite. I hate vampires... More of a pirate person. I don't own a single aropostal or abrocombi anything let alone can I pronounce there name. That wouldn't matter much though because I go to a uniform school. Actually it's worse because all the girls look cute in polos and I feel like I look like a guy. I have bacne and my hair is always in a ponytail. I get to take theatre every day because I go to a performing arts school but I don't know how good of an actor I am. People make fun of my laugh. I'm too loud... Is something wrong with me?
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calm down nothing is wrong with you your at that age where wierd things happen to you(puberty) and it happened to me too i thought some of those same things too and dont worry too much because its NORMAL their are bullys at all age levels you should just worry about school and your friends because if you think into the future you arent going to know any of those people anyways. so be your self, who cares about face book(i dont have one)and have fun with your child hood and forget about the jerks they are the ones with something wrong with them and make friends that will help you stand up to them(not by fighting),and to answer how to be 13 well you do what you like to do and you will naturally start to stop likeing barbies and toys .i had stuff animals untill i was 14 so dont fell bad (you might get a little sad when you throw away the barbies but they are just plastic) dont think about your age think about if you like or dont like that object.
P.S.your UNIQUE and you will find someone that will love you laugh:)
if you have any other questions or if i missed a question then reply back and ask again:)
First off you need to know your not the only one. Just have confidence in yourself and be your own person. Realize the other classmates are thinking about how they look to others. Notice this and play it to your advantage, for example don't treat anyone different from how you would want to be treated. NO one can't hate a kind person and karma is defiantly something you want on your side for life. Oh and there's a ton more that comes along with being your own person and proud of it... for one it shows and will be attractive to others. Always remember though there will all ways be haters but just know this.. the more you build up yourself the better you'll become and they will be standing still worrying about others. Love yourself, love life, live it and recognize your a miracle
I wanted to end it their but needed to comment on...this is the time to be a kid and if you need some one to talk to I be their for you. It makes me mad how these kids now a days think its coo to act grown before their age. You don't need them, they didn't make you they can't brake you and they'll gets their. Use this time to explore your interest expand your mind, spend time with loved ones. Times will get better, don't rush in to anything these years go by think about the future, your future. God loves you...keep your head up
By the way I never got a face book or a myspace there all just fads and they fade away. It's a waist of life and your time should be more valuable...what's the next big thing I say let them case it ...by the way face book is so 2007 . I look to set the trends not let them set me.