So I met this guy on an online site and we got chatting and it turned out he lived less than 5 minutes away from where I work so long story short I decided to pop round his after work on a Friday, I ended up staying at his for the night wasn't supposed to happen but it did. Anyway I then saw him that Sunday then the Wednesday and Thursday so yeah at the weekend we both had plans so we didn't see eachother until the Sunday night when it turned out that he had had another girl over that Saturday which I didn't really mind seeing as he's single and he can do what he want but yeah I've seen him every night this week since Sunday and it's now Wednesday... I'm just confused as to what this is, are we just friends with benifits or am I being blind and not seeing that he likes me? Now we do have quite a big age gap between us he's 32 and I'm 17 but we honestly do get on like a house on fire it's confusing me. So just some advice or if anyone has an idea as to what's going on I will be grateful :) oh and he has said he likes me but if he can still see other girls I don't really believe him or are guys just like that?
Is there something more to me and this guy?
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- 3+ months ago by mia_locke97
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- men, sex, online, dating
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A man will say and do whatever it takes to keep a woman around. I'm a man, and to be completely honest with you, your giving him the best of both worlds. I think if your looking for a relationship, this man is not for you. If he really did like you like that, you would know and there wouldnt be another woman in the picture.
I highly doubt he wants a relationship. Of he did he wouldn't have a girl over because guess what That can confuse the girl he likes or completely screw things up for her. Your young and should wait until at least 18. Learn more about him and don't give him what he "wants".