I was engaged a few months ago and I immediately asked a few friends to be my bridesmaids- one being a childhood friend whose family I worked for. Over time the friend and I have grown apart and I am starting to feel it is a one sided friendship. She never asks me how I am how I am doing and talks about herself constantly. A family member even had a health scare that she knew about and she never asked me how they were doing or anything even after I took time off work to bring them to surgery. She openly makes incredibly insulting comments about my political and religious beliefs as well as my fiances. We are having a religious ceremony in my fiance's church and she has claimed in the past that she hates that religion and people who follow it. My fiance feels that she is not a good friend to me and has expressed that he does not want her in the wedding.

I also recently I found out she was talking about me to one of my bridesmaids.

I am concerned because I work with her and her father is my boss. How do I handle this situation?? Any advice would be really helpful!