Me and this girl have been best friends all through primary school now we are in highschool and I think things have changed. She has two new friends that I dont really like. She seems to still prefer my company and we are no less close. What makes me really question it is they are hanging out quite often after school at each others houses. But when I text her to hang out she either doesnt reply or says no. Is she worth all this?
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I think u should stop talking to her for a while. Let her be with them for few days. Mean while catch up with new friends in that period. U'll probably understand that its ur fault that u can't bear her friends, not hers. As one grows up, there happens To be new friends. That might lead to have a few less hours with older people but don't forget the old proverb-old is gold....so stop showing disgusting faces when she's around her new friends and adapt them.....she will probably admire u for this act...also put on an air of confidence in front of new friends that u r much closer to her than them and stop competing with them because believe me they r no where close to u......and pls stop thinking too much. it would help the most. though I know its kinda difficult to do when u have feelings for someone.