We have been dating for a little while and we use to hangout all the time and try to hang every chance we had. we had a few little fights and then she told me she didn't love me. she started to ignore me and then near the end of the football game she told me she went there. then this kid said spent time with someone special and it was with her. then today she had a soccer fundraiser and i told her i might not be able to get out of the house and then when i do go i see him sitting there around her the whole time and she never told me. then later after when i left she told me she loves me and and i said thats ironic and then she got all defensive. and saying that i dont believe her and all this little stuff and that leads to right now me asking this question...
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Dang that sucks I'm sorry. Well to me it seems that she is getting attention from another guy and she's liking the attention that he is giving her. I would probably talk to her about it and see what she says like ask her why she told you that she doesn't love you and then say she does love you. There has to be a reason to why she is acting that way. So I think you just need to talk to her about it and if she sees nothing wrong with her talking to the guy tel her to think it was the other way and just the same that she has been doing to you except make it sound as if you were doing it to her and ask her how she would feel of you were doing that. Cause if this bothers you the way she is being then if you tell her to think of it the other way then she woul understand more. Sometimes we don't realize that it hurts until we think of it the other way if our spouse was doing it to us. Sorry I may have been a little confusing I hope you understand what I said. And good luck