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The question was not if sex was ok after marriage, it was is it really important during the dating process, before marriage.
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Sex don't have to be the end result, but it mostly is.
I don't believe it is greatly important, not for a lot of couples anyway. Physical contact is essential, like cuddling, little kisses and maybe just holding eachother. As long as you're confident and comfortable with eachother, sexual activity shouldn't be that big. (:
It's not essential, however being sexualy compatible is important in a relationship. Not to say you should hurry up and do it or anything, but imagine a worst case scenario of waiting until after marriage and realizing that even though you love each other, you can't physically satisfy each other.
In the end sex should happen between you, when you feel it is natural. Whether that's now before marriage or after. Do what feels right to you~
What you have written carry's merit, but check this out, you are dating a person lets say for a couple of years, you both love each other madly, you both fit like a hand in a glove. During your dating peroid you never had sex with this person, fast forward you guy married, then you find out that the you married don't like sex, or the person just shuts down sexually. That's a hell of a life to live, would you agree ?
Indeed, I've heard stories of marriages ending as a result of poor sexual compatibility. In fact in some cultures it's grounds for divorce if a man can't satisfy his wife. I always thought that was interesting.
Why do you say that Crazyjef11 ?
Well I guess it is pretty important. But not right away.
I can see your point
It depends on the person you're with. If they're really after sex, then they might see it as very important. However, if they're not completely horny all the time and/or can just control themselves, then no it isn't.
However, what's more important is how comfortable you are with it. If you're with someone who doesn't understand or respect your decision to not have sex (whether because of personal beliefs or not being into it) then they are kind of a douche, and one shouldn't feel pressured into having sex with them just to make them happy.
like Chevy said dating starts cause someone found someone else attractive. It is in our DNA that we look for someone with who we can have a child - most people call it sexual needs and it's OK but we biologically have them to become parents. It's normal to have sex after few or more dates cause you wanna try this person if she/he can be the mother/father or your child. This need can be placed in our subconsious but it is there and normal people will always have smaller or bigger need to have sex.
It is really not important. i say true relationship dusn't depend on sex. but after some time like when u get older it might b important. @ z age of 18 maybe it might b all abt sex. but it is good 2 stay till mariage. i mean lets pause n think 4 a secound. wat is z whole point. u just fuck some1 .feel good bla bla bla. zen wat? i ain't saying u should hv sex 2 give birth cuz zat sucks.i guess wat im tryin 2 tellu is ur date is not ur sex partner.
It totally depends on what age category you are talking about.
15-25 its hugely important. It's high on the list for teens because of testosterone and hormones and puberty. Someone said its fine when it feels natural. Unfortunately, teens with virtually no life experience and chemicals being released into their systems and many with a desperate need to feel loved or important to someone all think its natural when it is no where near that.
No...... After marriage to do sex with other person is great offence.