My mom died a few years back and since then, my dad has remarried about 3 months ago. Throughout those 3 months I have put on a noticeable amount of weight. I am 15 and I weighed 112 lbs before my stepmom fame into my life. Ever since then,my stepmom always makes my brownies and cookies and buys me chocolate. Because of that I weigh 170 lbs. I can't wear my crop tops of any of my old short shorts or bikinis because of the weight I gained. I have even gotten lazier. I used to take walks and go outside but now I stare at the TV or my phone all day and eat because my stepmom does everything for me. I think she is intentionally trying to fatten me because she doesn't do any of that for my dad. She also always tells me to eat all my food but my dad never does. She also tries me to avoid getting to physical. I am pretty sure she is trying to make me fat.
Is my step-mom trying to make fat?
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- 3+ months ago by AmyGF
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- fat, stepmother, weight gain, overweight
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Possibly. But she could just want to make you feel comfortable around her. like all step mom's, they're a lot different to your old mum and they probably know how hard it must be for you. so may I suggest that you start trying to lose weight, let your Dad and Stepmom know what you're doing so they can help you out. if it's to embarrassing for you to tell one parent or both talk to someone you trust or start helping make the meals so you can add in more healthy stuff and try making the meals to your satisfaction.Don't forget to try talking to her about how you want her to treat you and that you have your own life. But try talking to her WITHOUT hurting her feelings. But then again, this is my opinion not yours.
I'am always happy to help!
Thank you tor your answer c: but I accepted my stepmom when my dad and her were engaged and she knows that. Once she moved in, she started doing everything for me like cleaning my room, doing the dishes, getting the mail, cleaning the pool, raking the leaves, all of it. I try to tell her to stop, and she is always baking cakes, brownies, cookies, etc. but she is very sensitive and I am affraid she will be offended if I talk to her. My dad would think it is nonsence, but your idea of having other people help me watch what I eat is pretty smart. Only thing is that the closest house to me is 2 miles so not to much of a choice there and my stepmom doesn't like people at the house. You are helpful, my situation is pretty delicate.