My mom and I had an argument in the car. I'd stated that I'd had a headache and she burst out yelling that it was because I always had headphones on or ear buds in my ears, and that's why I had a headache. In actuality it was due to my increasing frustration that she always complains and whines about my dad and I am absolutely sick of hearing about it, which is why I just keep my headphones on to block out as much as their arguing as possible. Them arguing and her complaining makes me so infuriated I just get a godawful headache from keeping my irritation inside. I continued to tell her that her complaining was childish, immature, irritating to those around her, and that I DID NOT WANT TO HEAR IT.
So I just haven't talked to her. I just hang out in my room, try to ignore her when i go downstairs to eat; and whenever I do need to interact with her I talk in the most dead tone I can muster as to not express how angry I am with her. And occasionally throw in some snide remarks to try and spite her. ( I know, a bit immature, but I think she deserves it. )
She's also been saying nasty remarks since this, referring to me as a thing, claiming she has no daughter, etc. Just thirty minutes ago; " Hey, you, thing up there. Get the trash. "
Personally, I don't think I was in the wrong. I just said I had a headache, and SHE had incorrectly assumed as to how I'd gotten the headache, claiming I used excuses. She's too proud to pull her head out of her ass.
So is she justified to be so rude to me? Even though I just told she has been making assumptions about me?
( I can understand that maybe she is stressed out, what with running her own store, and yeah, my dad does make mistakes, but we are all human. She doesn't need to spout out all this unnecessary BS 24/7. Really, go write in a journal. I am a child for god's sake. Also I'm sorry this is a bit of a read. )
---Girl who's an only child