My girlfriend talks about her ex's often (like what they do or how they acted together) and the other night while we were sleeping I was awakened by a text msg that came to her phone in the middle of the night from her ex asking if he could come over. The next day i did something I probably shouldn't have, and regret doing so as it is not who I am, but I looked in her phone and the messages were deleted. I have seen a few come from him and now they are not there. She has never had a lock on her phone but now has put one on there. Should I be concerned? I'm trying to let it go but it seems fishy. Looking for closure.
Is my Girlfriend hiding something?
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- 3+ months ago by thatguy9455
- Topics:
- sleeping, night, girlfriend, together, talk, cheating
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No...don't play her game and YES something is fishi - I would come right out and ask her - why play a guessing game / that is not good for anyone. Better to know either way then you at least have a clear picture!
She is saying that she doesn't want me to go through her phone and that is all. She had another text in the middle of the night last night and when I asked who it was she said none of my business. I don't like this crap
Look man you know that she is messing around with this dude, you read that text " can i come over ", what more do you need ? do you actually have to see her giving him head to be convinced. just saying,
If you are not living with her, personally, I would put some distance between you and her. If you are living with her I would demand clarification as it seems she is NOT trying to hide anything - it's quite out in the open if you ask me.
I don't like the lock thing. Makes me question if she is being faithful or if she is just disappointed with me for looking in her phone. I came straight forward and told her that I did because I felt bad about it? Should I put a lock on mine too to see if she says anything about it?