My live in boyfriend is very possesive and paranoid I'm going to cheat because he travels for work and is gone 3-4 weeks a month. Because of this I'm not allowed to go out to karaoke anymore or out dancing with friends when he's out of town. I have to share my location 24/7. If I turn off my location, he will call me up within seconds and ask why I turned it off. He goes through my phone logs and texts when he is home. He interrogates me everytime any guy comments on my social media. I feel like I should have the freedom to do the things I enjoy when he's gone because he's gone and I'd just be at home alone. Am I right? Or is he?
Responses (1)
Yes he is very controlling. I recommend not cheating since he may find out and potentially abuse you. What I recommend doing is reaching out to nearby family and/or friends, find a place to stay, and stop responding to him. Pack your bags and leave his ass immediately. If he tries to threaten you via text report him to local police or just report him now. You are right he’s wrong for all of this a bf should never be like this. Please follow my advice and I hope everything goes well for you.