I hav a family friend who's like my big brother. I am 19 and he's in his early 30's. As I said b4 he's like my big bro so, there's a lot of trust and respect.
But today something weird happened. He came over today ( no big deal it's like his second home and vice versa)
Later when he was bout to leave he told me he noticed something wrong with my car ( there actually was, so he wasn't lying). I wnt outside wth him, my mum and everyone was inside. While we were outside; he was standing behind me, he put his hands on my shoulder and he was really really close to me. And his hands moved a bit around my body. Not on my boobs or anything but his hands were close to my vagina. Also, he moved his hands on belly a bit. This happened for like three seconds then he move back and came closer again and "felt me" again for another few seconds.
Then we went back inside but b4 gng inside he said " I'll txt u... Regarding a letter..."
Nothing really happend but those few sec I felt really uncomfortable and had the " omg wat the hell.." thought inside my head.
His wife is gone overseas does that hav something to do wth it. Is he really a trustworthy person or am I just overthinking this? I m a bit confused?
Cheers,
Princess :)
Is my "big brother" dodgy or not?
Responses (2)
It doesn't matter if it was innocent or not - if it felt wrong in your gut, and made you uncomfortable, and you guys are close, tell him that you felt uncomfortable! Either he knew it was wrong, and will stop, or he didn't realize he had done anything wrong and will be more careful. But do talk to him about it, if he is a 'brother'.
He has watch you grow up over these last six years, any time a man puts his hand on or near your vagina he knows what he's doing. Also you mention his wife was away for a while. opportunity, opportunity, opportunity.
I get what you mean. If he does something like this again, I will be frank and tell him to stop.
Thanks for the advice :)
You're welcome Princess be careful,
He has never behaved like this ever. For the six years that I have known him, he's always been respectful of my space. He's has never given me more than a friendly sweet hug.