As humans we seem to be designed to want and give love. I truly loved someone in my early 20s and broke up with her after 5 years of intense romance. But I left her. Why? Because I wanted to know what it was like to be with someone else. I was just a stupid man-child. After 20 years- 20 YEARS! and a marriage and 2 children to another woman, i find myself still in love, still in love with my first love - almost despite myself. I wish to seek her out and proclaim my undying endless love. I am truly tortured. True love exists.
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I'm a 21 year old Trainee Pilot,,,,,,,I'm in quite a similar situation to yours,,,,,,,but in my case, I stood strong but she ditched me saying simple words "let's be friends" but now she's all alone, but I got in relationship with another Girl, but her thoughts still haunt me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,so I agree with you, love is an endless pain though I've felt it just for a little time,,,,,,,,, I still couldn't kick her out,,,,,,,,,,, but still she's in contact with me,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I don't know what should I do, coz I feel empty though I have achieved most of my ambitions,
To say the truth what runs in my mind is that you're superior to me as you're older and has faced more things than me, but, I absolutely understand the way you feel through magnitude though the duration may vary,
You know this better than me "bearing pain inside and moving forward is what makes us men" and men never cry, so the pain remains the same.
True love is wonderful isn't it! Try not to be so hard on yourself, sounds like you were guided to try other things in life when you broke it off with her. We need that sometimes in order to learn many, many lessons in life that we would not have learned otherwise. If you do choose to find her then you may want to try to get to know who she is now. She may be completely different from back then & vice versa. I'm sure that you will make an amazing guy because it sounds like you will be emotionally available and affectionate to her. It's never too late to try. Good luck!
True love is not endless pain, true love is bliss. It is is Divine, soulful, universal love that comes from the Soul. What love is painful? It is shallow, worldly love, love from body to body, love from mind to mind and heart to heart. Because this love has expectations, this love is not spiritual. Divine love, the real true love comes from the Soul, just like the white light from the sun creates seven colors of the rainbow, white Divine love from the Soul creates seven colors of love, right from the time we are born till the time we die. Love for our parents, our friends, or beloved, erotic love, emotional love, but all these come from that white Divine soulful love which is true love.