Ok so there is this one girl in my school that I've had a crush on for like 5 months and the reason why I won't say that I "like" her is because I don't know her very well. We aren't even going the same year in highschool (I'm going third year, she's going second) and there is, to be honest, almost no situations where I could go to talk her. In my school (in finland) because its kinda small school every highschool class here have their own class-room where we spend time on. Some lessons are even kept for both the second and the third year at the same time. After each lesson (if its a combined lesson) she goes back to her own class room with her friends so I dont really have a chance to talk to her, especially when we just about know each others names. Now I ask that would it be totally UNACCEPTABLE to ask her out and/or tell about this crush-thingy to her online? I know that its not the ideal way to do it (believe me, I would talk to her at school if I simply had a change for it) but right now I just want to get this out of my chest and not keep it in forever...
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If you are going to do it online, message her first. Conversate with her via there for a couple weeks. Ask her if there is anyway you guys could talk in person. Maybe in school or even at a park after school. Just don't message her right away and tell her you like her. Especially if you barely know each other. You could possibly scare her off. Just get to know her better, if you still feel the same. Maybe after those couple weeks, she feels the same way about you as well. Never know :)
it's not necessarily bad, or forbidden etc. but it is better to tell someone in person that you like them and want to have a more serious relationship. Try talking to her after school or during lunch. But you said you don't even really know this girl, How do you know you actually like her, or if you just have a physical crush? Before you try getting serious with this girl, I'd try to establish a friendship first.