So I only see my boyfriend on weekends. Overall he makes me happy although I have seen things like him contacting women online (flirting, to put it mildly). I have confronted him about this and he apologized. I have been with him for 2 years now. The reason I only see him on weekend is because he works nights. Anyway he has been playing video games like crazy for months now (something I didn’t know about him when we began dating). I have gotten used to it but he plays up until 6:00am most morning (probably due to is overnight work schedule). The only TV is in my room. Sometimes I wake up to him talking on the game(even Sunday nights). The night before last I wake up to him talking to these people and hear a girl. It didn’t really bother me that she was a girl, so I asked him to turn it down (nicely). Then the next day he tells me he was talking to this girl (I knew it was from the game) and how they were arguing about something relating to football. Later that day I hear him talking on the game, so I said who is that (nicely)? He blew up on me, and said oh my god! He hands me the headset and asked me If I want to speak to the person (it was the girl and I didn't take the headset) I am stunned.. I ended leaving for a few minutes due to this crazy reaction. I was very hurt. I come back he doesn’t stop ranting. I asked him to leave at that point. It may sound silly but I really feel as though I have had enough. I told him I want space and he said he doesn’t.
Is it time to call it quits?... It feels like it?
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- 3+ months ago by gold
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- happy, women, boyfriend, miss, online, feel, weekend, time, flirting
Added 3+ months ago:
He also said wait till I tell everyone that is why we broke up, because I am talking to a girl on the game (In a moking tone and laughing). Why would that be a concern at this point? When I asked him to leave he said fine just give me the computer I brought you ( Always fear being with someone like that) . I began taking everything he gave me as gifts and put them in a pile. It makes me wonder if we ever get back together. If he would really ask that. So disgusted....
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well if it is associated with the game i could see him talking to her game related thats it thats doable but to rant and rave at you is totaly acting like he has issues with it that it might not be just game related but see the thing is why would you get so bent about it if you feel like you need time apart then you need to take it cause it could end up not being on the right track hes a gamer so to speak they do theses things but give it some good thought to see what you feel is right
That should NEVER be a question .. him or me .. it has to always be about YOU in terms of feeling equal and respected in a relationship. The job of two people in a relationship is to complement (not compliment) each other, respect each other, and care about each other. I don't care what comes out of his mouth .. its what his actions say ..
Thank you Tinikins. You really said some insightful things. I really need some time for me to think.
Thank you so much :) It is really hard since we were together for 2 years but I think I let him get away with too much and it is suddenly starting to hit me. Your comment really is appreciated.
believe it or not that is what it feels like. I honestly though I loved him, but now it feels like its him or me. Thank you.