Hi....I am a boy and a teenager and earlier today I had my first kiss...and most people are happy about this but being raised to treat women right this kinda crossed my boundaries and I left because I was queasy because of being so nervous and now I dont want to talk to her or have anything to do with her...so is it okay to be traumatized by a first kiss.....
Is it okay to be traumatized by a first kiss?
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- 3+ months ago by lifeisrough
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- people, teenager, boy, women, first, treat, right, raised, boys, today
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The reason it crossed my boundaries is because it turned into a makeout session and I went with because I was already nervous and I couldn't think straight
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no its perfectly okay theres no reason you should have a problem with that you may be scared lets call it it was something that caught you off guard it will get better nothing to get up set about sometimes we aren't ready for that to occur but sense it happened don't shut her off it just caught you off guard thats all
Nothing wrong with how you are feeling, what I would suggest based on how you feel is to stop the kissing for a bit, there's no pressure that you must keep kissing. If you are not comfortable kissing, then by all means, don't. If you feel like you want to again later, by all means do so. Just be aware of you boundries and stick to them, if things make you uncomfortable or cross the line for you (or the girl) then stop it, no pressure.