Is it not "healthy' to keep meeting my ex at her house to pick up my 3year old daughter?&vice versa?

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We have been divorced for 1.5 years and it seems she always wants me to come to hers to pick up my daughter. I have a girlfriend of 9months now(she does not mind at all)...I just want to know whats best for my daughter...We do meet halfway sometimes as well which I prefer.

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Ask her to meet you half way, she knows she is putting you in a tight spot asking you to pick up your kid at her place. I'm sure she knows that you have move on with another woman in your life.

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The both of you should settle the arrangement for your child sake. It's better if you both can seat and talk for a while. Tell her set up do you want in picking up your child. It's depend maybe on the situation of your ex. Maybe sometimes she's to busy so she prefer you to pick you child in the her house.

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you know sometimes this can creat feelings or just a way to see ones eyes but that's far behind the other I would just meet half way this way you aren't the only one that is trying but its better to meet each other half way both ways

Is it not "healthy' to keep meeting my ex at her house to pick up my 3year old daughter?&vice versa?

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