I recently turned. 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss or an actual bf yet all of my friends have done that and much more when. Ever I tell someone they just say to wait it wil happen on its own but I'm sick of waiting and I just feel. Like I'm the only one who hasent and I real want have my first kiss and part of me just wants to get it over with I told my best guy friend that I've never been kissed and he seemed suprised and said if I wanted he could kiss me what should I do I'm tiered of waiting should I kiss him ? Shoud I wait even though I'm sick of waiting ?
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I am 18. A college freshman. I never been on a date, had a bf, etc. I never had a guy friend but I am shy. I want to date but I don't let that be the main thing on my mind. Just tell your friend how you feel....he might feel the same. Don't rush or be forceful though. You have your whole life.
I'm a 30 yr old man and I stopped looking for my first kiss after I was 20 (it happened when I was 24).
I felt exactly the same way you did. Thought it was strange, thought I must've been lacking some attractiveness, thought it'd never happen.
The truth is, if its meant to happen, it will.
First I had to realise that beauty is within, not on the outside. Then I had to realise that just because some things are normal for others, that doesn't mean they're normal for me.
I had the same problem with my virginity after a while.
All I can say is, something beautiful is worth waiting a life time for. I would've waited a lifetime for my wife's first kiss, and everyday I'm grateful that it was her's who was my first. She's even joked she's jealous that she can't have that special feeling with me.
So, its not all about when, where, who, is about why. And the why is what makes it the most special.
Find happiness, find peace, find love.. Don't chase it
Don't panic, you will defibately not be the only one in your group who hasn't kissed a boy - I haven't. You will find someone, just remember things take time. About the kiss with your friend, if you are going to regret ut don't do it... Otherwise have fun with your first kiss!
soo sorry, I meant what to be in a relationship, not "what to be"