like... just fondeling with a girl with a bra on and nothing else. is this normal? i know people do it, but at fourteen? i honestly dont know. also, is going to 2nd base like a trashy thing to do?
To be fair, at that age your probably just exploring, i was older personally before anything like that happened, just take it easy.. dont go any further :)
a lot of kids do that and even more and at younger ages. it's still wrong, no matter how normal it gets. i'd say you should be extremely careful and maybe back off a little. it might seem harmless now but sooner or later it'll escalate.