My dad strangled my brother, ever since then. I haven't been able to see him the same. I get uncomfortable around him. My mom says how he is Passive Aggressive. Ever since that day, I can't speak to him the same. I'm confusingly scared. My therapist is trying to bring him in for a session, but around people he puts on this cover. I was at a hospital and we had a family session, it didn't go that well. While I was there, I was too scared to talk about that incident. My parents have had an off and on relationship. My mom has finally decided to move, and get divorce, I'm very grateful. I'm not sure if this is considered abuse of some sort. So much has happened, and I'm worried I am probably just over thinking. He's a good dad, I just can't see him the same after he choked my brother. I don't know what to think, and I'm sorry. If anyone could give me some input, that'd be appreciated. Is he abusive or am I just overreacting?