My mans babys mother calls him repeatedly when the kids are outside gets upset when he doesnt answer the phone...then when he realizes im listening he lies n tells her he has to go n call him later....we live together . I feel i reserve the right to say something...but am i overstepping my bounds?
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I kind of understand how you feel because my man also has a baby mama but they don't really associate unless they really HAVE to. You as his current girlfriend do have the right to say something if you feel that if the situation is getting out of hand. Just tell him how you honestly feel about the situation in a calm manner because if you start sounding alarmed and super angry most likely the talk is going to go nowhere. Always remember that even if he does have a baby mama and they keep in contact that you're the one he chose and you're the one living with him now. She is just a baby mama and there's a reason as to why she is just that. The baby mama I assume gets mad when he doesn't pick up and constantly calls him because most likely she is not fully over him but that doesn't mean your man is feeling that way either. It's hard to be in these types of relationships but like I said, always remember that you're the one he chose.
Thank you for that insight!
Thank you for that insight!