I believe in doing what you truly want you sacrifice people. I don't see a way to have both
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Do something that you truly want to, if the people really loves you they gonna understand. Its a big step and you might loose some of them becuse they just dont understand why are you doing it or they just need some time. But those who stay, they are gonna be there for you whatever you do and you know that you can trust them no matter what. Dont waste your time and delay things becuse you think they life would stop becuse you are not there. If they love you, be sure you gonna stay in touch one way or another.
I know its hard but i hope you not gonna have regrets like i do. Just try it! Get out of your comfort zone and do what you want. Live it out. I dont know how old are you and whats your life story... all i can tell you is to enjoy it and people that loves you will never leave your side even if you are far away from them. You will find new people that love you, just be yourself and do what you want.Dont wait just make it happen!
I wish someone would kick me in the ass few years ago that i should do what i want and not look on the ones i leave beheind like i would betray them if i would leave. It would be hard for them and for me but we would allways be there for each other. Just a few times i leaved my comfort zone and i can tell you those was the days i truly lived. I wish i wouldnt be so stupid and just do stuff no matter what other people think of me or how do i look.
Now i all can do is to sit in my room,count the days till the end and be mad at myself that i didnt do anything fun or what maters to me - just to make them happy and care that other people wouldnt make fun of me. Dont wait that u get sick or something other comes in your way.If u have a chance then take it, u may fail but you will never regret it that you didnt do it.
(Sorry for the long anwser but i just dont want that you regret anything. If you are young just live life with full lungs,do good things, be nice to people and stay in contact with those u love. Someday when your 23 and wanted to start living you find out that you are sick have short time to live and you failed at living the life. Life isnt about the things that happend but the things that you remember- till the end.)