My friends alway say to me how quite I am or how I never speak when where out with people im not overly friendly with or know very well. They have said this evey single weekend I have gone out so far with them and it really upsets me because I feel like I'm a bore but in all honesty im just a very shy person. I speak loudly when I'm with them in school but if where out together with some people I don't know I don't speak as much as I usually would.This weekend in particular my friend made a joke about me not speaking so I just laughed and tried to shake it off but I was actually quite upset so for the rest of the night I spoke out a bit more and as we where ready to all leave at the end of the night the same friend mentioned how I didn't speak once, this hurt me as I did speak and clearly she wasn't listening to me and I feel like this has happened thousands of times before, so anyway sorry for rambling but is it bad if I'm quiet? Or am I just being a bore and ruining the night for my friends?