Okay. Well... Lets start from the beginning... I started dating this guy for six months, its started in December when I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too. After two months of dating, this was in February, we got into an argument and he said that I didn't love him at all. Then he said he was too desperate to break up with me... A couple days later, he said he was sorry, that he was just upset that day. I forgave him. After than... Our conversations got dull... But I still loved him. Although, my best friend at the time, Stacie, like him, but whenever I would ask her if she did cause she kept talking to him over the phone and we hardly talked anymore.... She would say, "No. When I first saw him, I thought he was gay. I would never, NEVER try to get in the middle of your relationship." She would continue to lie to me. They started talking more than my boyfriend at the time and I did... This was upsetting me, but I didn't say anything. Then... On May 12, he broke up with me over a text message and I was at my best guy friend's house, Zack, but I didn't say anything about it until they brought me home. I didn't cry at all. I just felt... Numb and depressed... I called Stacie five times, but she never answered, but she called me the next day saying my was talking to my ex. I was so angry, but I didn't say anything. When I went to school, she would try to make me laugh and smile... It wouldn't work. On the 15, she called me late at night and asked if she could date my ex and she KNEW that I still loved him at the time... I threw my phone at the ground and cried for a minute and called her back. I told her I still loved him and that I would be upset if she dated him. The next day, I walked to my school and when I got there I saw them holding hands and hugging and talking like him and I would. I was heartbroken. I waved at my so called best friend and waited for Zack to get there. I started crying on his shoulder when he got there. I cried for three hours that day. It was embarrassing... A month after that, they broke up at the last day of school, he apologized to me and told me he only dated her because he missed me. I forgave him because I still somewhat liked him at the time. Now its been close to four months of being apart and I know I am over him. I don't like talking to him, he bores me, he likes putting me down. I'm starting to have feelings for my best friend, Zack, but I told him I just wanted to be friends because I know he likes me as well, but also likes other people... I do want to date, I know I can wait. I want to find the right guy for me, but.... This feeling for my best friend.... It shouldn't be there, I know that. I don't know what to do. Help, please... What should I do?
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Your ex is an ass ._. you shouldnt have fogiven him, but Zack sounds sweet you should definatly date him. This happened to me once, My best friend hooked me up with a guy i liked, he liked me too. After 2 months of dating him, i found out they were talking via facebook, then she started saying that she liked my boyfriend, then she asked if we could switch boyfriends, i asked if it was a joke, but she was serious, i called her crazy and told her no, then my boyfriend said to her on facebook, 'if you break up with ur boyfriend, ill break up with my girlfriend, then we can date.' next thing i know he broke up with me, that afternoon! they were holding hands and sweet talking. My best friend (guy) comforted me, and we started dating, its nearly been a year we have been dating :P my friend and ex broke up after 2 weeks XD, im still friend with both of them though, although we dont talk much, and in the past year (that i have been with my boyfriend) she has had over 4 boyfriends XD. but im happy now :) im sure you will be happy too
yeah i get what you mean, i have had that situation before, and honestly, if she gets mad at you for dating Zack, then say he likes me, and stuff like that, and if she still is pissed then she isnt a good friend ._. (just talking from experience)
well a real friend anyways
Well... I was stupid to forgive him, yes... I hate backstabbers. Plus, my friend, Liz, likes my best friend (Zack), but he likes me and I don't want to hurt her even though we aren't as close as we used to be...The thing is... I don't want to ruin our relationship if we did date and we broke up, it would be awkward, you know? We wouldn't be friends anymore and that worries me...