Is it alright for your mom to call you fat or ugly?

I'm also experiencing this !! She often calling me ugly,no sence of fashion etc. and sometimes she would tell me that I'm nothing compared to my older sister !! We often fight about this she always told me that she is jealous to my other friends that became a stylish,beautiful ladies she is upset about this because when we was a child (friends) they are jealous of me but now “What happened” she told me !!
So sometimes I feel that I'm not loved by my own family !!
But there 's a side of me that feel loved cause she always buy me some clothes,shoes,hairties, etc. but it's not important for me because I just want to be loved not by some material things but by being loved who i am!!

Could they just except me by who I am or by being a human too that need love !!??

What am I gonna do !?

No it's not okay for your own loving parent to call you fat or ugly because that shows that she doesn't love you anymore. You should be loved no matter what but she probably didn't do it on purpose she probably had a bad day. Lay off of her and see if her mood improves later on. Also, I think you should also cook her supper see what she does after that.