i'm 14 going on 15 and i'm sexually active with guys and girls. i'm safe like we use condoms and i take "the morning after pill". i told my family and they were just happy that i was having safe sex. but my partners pearents , teachers , and other adults frown apon it . it makes me feel like i've done something wrong , like i'm being rejected by adults because i have sex . they were teens too at one ponit.i cant change the past or what i feel... but i'm not sure if what i'm doing is a bad ? i'm being safe so why are they so hard on me for it?
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This is my personal opinion.
The truth of the matter is that having sex at such a young age is unnecessary, especially at anything below 16. Even so, sex at an age still below 18 is still not a good idea, seeing that it can result in pregnancy. Not even the condom can 100% protect you from STDs and pregnancy. You have your entire life in front of you to have sex. Love at this age should be sweet and romantic. Before having sex, people must be physically and emotionally mature.
Consensual sex is never a bad thing. If you feel physically and emotionally ready to have sex then no one should make you feel bad about it. (Although plenty of people will.) It's especially wonderful that you're having safe sex, it sounds to me like you're acting very responsibly.
I'll let you in on a secret, it doesn't get much easier when you get older either, even though I'm 24 and in a committed relationship, people still give me a hard time for having sex before marriage. Sadly, sex is very taboo in our society.
i dont think i am not that discriminatory when it comes to those because for me as long as you are happy with what you are doing and you dont hurt anybody with what your doing that is fine its just there are some people which are so judge mental about what others do with their life
the "morning after pill" also known as "Plan B" isn't 100% effective, and when taken too often, stops working. Your body becomes immune to it. Personally I think that you're too young, but if you are going to keep having sex, then just make sure you ARE safe.. I would talk to your mom about going on Birth Control just as an extra precaution...and screw what other people think...you may be too young, but no one can tell you want to do..