I'm engaged. My fiance treats me well all things considered. He never says mean things to me or does anything abusive. But here are the things I'm worried about:

1. He lies to others A LOT to get what he wants. I have no evidence he has lied to me but his makes me worry

2. He says racist things and calls women "bitch" he doesn't do this to me but still worrisome.

3. He is demanding and entitled with his mom like he expects her to do things for him and is kind of rude when she tried to converse with him abt everyday things.

4. He is selfish at times, spending a lot of money on silly things for himself, waking me up on weekends just cuz he's up, putting his needs and wants first

5. He does a lot of gross things (things everyone does but they really bug me when he does them)

6. Not much chemistry even though he is handsome, I'm just not that attracted to him

7. He can be very obnoxious

8. He says he wants to be with me because "I'm the type of girl he should be with" but usually goes for kind of party girl blondes who are kind of trashy. I know that's his natural "type" he is typically attracted to.

Is it normal that these things bug me so much? Should I get past them? Nobody is perfect. I may have commitment issues too, I don't know. It may be I'm just at a new phase in relationship and need to accept him for who he is? Please help!