Hi so I'm 15 and I have a bf who Is 18. He's the most amazing guy ever I usually date major ass holes. Well we have been dating for a month. When we first started dating we texted alot an he always wanted to hang out and stuff but the past little while he has been busy with work all the time which is understandable but whenever he says we can Hang out he always cancels like more then a few times he left me waking for him for hours then he was like sorry I'm to tired to hang out an he's always to tires to talk on the phone and he rarely texts me I love him so much but all of my friends thinks he's cheating but I don't wanna believe that he is. Like we havnt had sex sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff but I'm just confused like it could be that he really is busy and tired an just doesn't understand how I feel like everytime I'm left waiting and he cancels I cry and it hurts I asks him thebother day if he wa cheating an he said he would never do that to me but my friends r convinced that he is so I just need some advice and also I don't want to seem clingy but I'm not rlly like I'll txt him once and he won't answer so I'll text him once te next day and if he doesn't answer the next day and when he answers finally it's like nothings wrong at all
Answers (1)
Hello Lindsaylou,
Well with the information given by you, I can't conclude that he's cheating on you.
On the other hand it doesn't seem that he likes to spend time with you.
You're hanging out for a month now, and he already makes up excuses so that he doesn't have to spend time with you. I can only say, take a hint.
I understand that you're in love but you mustn't let him take you for a fool.
My suggestion to you, ask him straight out wether he loves you as much as you love him.
That should clear the air between you two, being open and direct in life saves you the trouble of wondering what's wrong. I hope I could be of assistance in any kind, I wish you all the best in life. Greetz Balaamserror