Im a 35 y.o female, and Ive been crushing on a guy at work for months. Finally landed to catch him on break today, and talk to him. I know he like me too because we've been flirting and smiling with eachother since forever... so, mid awkward conversation he tells me he's 21! He tols me he thought I was 22 or 23. I just giggled and said I'm not saying how old I am. Thoughts please....
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First I would tell him how old you are. If he is okey with that then I would persue more. You have to think before you jump into anything as to what do you think at your ages you both want from a relationship. You coud have same views but could very well differ because of the age gap.
Hello,
I think that age is very important, my opinion is that you have to go with men of your age and not 15 years younger or older men. If he doesn't know your age yet then you should tell him right away. I wouldn't like it either if someone lies about their age, because as I already said: age difference is very important to me :)
I havent lied as per say.. just didnt tell him how old I was. I'll tell him of course. I was also kinda thinking that maybe the connection is just a really strong friendship vibe. We seem to share the same humour, so who knows, maybe he's like going to be a really cool friend. Thanks for the comments, keep them comin :)