I've just found out I'm pregnant. I already have 14 and 9 yo boys. My partner is 44 doesn't seem too keen on keeping it although he will leave the decision up to me. We have been together a year and both have kids from other people, however our relationship though loving can be rocky. I'm scared of ending up a single parent and starting over again at my age. I don't have any practical support from family. The other thing is I had surgery a few months ago to remove an ovary and borderline cancer. I am shocked to be pregnant as was being advised to have hysterectomy...although i said i dii decided to be monitored instead. Would I be crazy to keep this baby and start over again at my age?
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If you are thinking of getting an abortion please do not, Unless it would be life threatening to give birth to the child I would not abort the pregnancy. If you decide that you don't want to keep the baby you could give it up for adoption. The child would be in custody of the state but it is better than abortion. I have not wanted a child that much but if you can afford to keep the baby I think you should.