I used to be an ENFP. I didn't have my first best friend till I was 19. An INFJ. She door slammed me. Then I fell into a deep depression. I know I'm a horrible person. I love INFJ's, I think their awesome. Me and this girl were polar opposite. I used to be a Pollyanna, but when we were friends, I was going through a lot. It wasn't just one problem, but every area of life was affected. I became negative. I know I was annoying. She kept trying to give me advice, but none of it was helpful. She is reserved, introverted, grew up in devout Christian family, where everything is brush under the rug. I grew up in an open, but loud, chaotic family with no structure. Finally we had a big argument. She needed alone time, and I felt she was slipping away. She called me high maintenance and my mom crazy. That's when I went off. Then she started yelling. After she door slammed me, she acted like I don't exist, gossiped, and spread lies about me. Finally I did a personality cleanse. Cultivated good qualities I was lacking, removed bad ones. Now I'm an ENFI. She now says little nice comments or likes my posts. I'm just confused. Any insight?