I'm a guy in love with his female roommate. We've lived together for about 2 years. I have known her for about 16 years. Her previous boyfriend is one of my best friends which complicates things but at this point I could careless. For as long as I have known her I have had feelings for her but I put my feelings aside for their relationship to happen hoping for a chance myself one day. I did tell him about my feelings for her one day in a drunkin stupor but I don't know if he remembers the conversation. Anyways I have been able to contain my feeling for her but in the last year to now they only have been growing and growing. Now my feelings for her has come to a fever pitch and I'm afraid if I express my feelings face to face it will ruin the friendship and my living situation. I have written my feelings for her in a letter last year and gave it to her while I was away on a work trip but she never replied or even hinted that she read it. I need some insight or recommendations on what I should. Please help.
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well you can only keep your feelings on hold down the road it gets harder to do that but sense the friendship might be on the chopping block you might have to not say anything but you have to ask your self would it be worth it to ruin the relationship i think not because it would be a bad thing to not have her in your life
Yeah I definitely don't want to lose the friendship. But if I cannot express my feelings what do I do to contain them? I can't keep them bottled up forever. Thanks for the reply by the way.