So I like someone, he recently told me he was anti social personality disorder so I began doing a bunch of research & he definitely I think fits it.
but it scares me because I genuinely like him a lot even to the point I think I'm in love with the guy.. we've been talking for a few months now, & recently he even let me take his V-card.. but I don't know if that even meant anything for him? he's the first guy I've truly felt something for since my last relationship which was about a year long and ended a year ago.. he says he doesn't like kissing (which I love) he doesn't like expressing his emotions at all obviously so how do I know he likes me?! he says he likes cuddling with me and wishes I was with him a lot of the time, I think he cares somewhat about me? he's always making sure I'm going to my classes (college) and doing good in them. he texts me over & over when I don't answer or when he wakes up before me.
I've also expressed to him many times how much I like him / when I think he's being cute & he thinks its odd/weird? I guess he's not used to people liking him considering he hasn't dated anyone sincee like the 7th grade and he doesn't talk to any other girls, he likes to show me his messages to show me he doesn't.. but yet I'm so confused and scared because I rather not get/be hurt by him. I wanna know should I keep going/talking to him? does it seem like he might like me too?? if you have ASPD have you ever loved someone/been in a committed relationship & how did it go?
In like/love with someone with ASPD?
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- 3+ months ago by caseyy123
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- love, social, bunch, research, anti, disorder, personality, disorders
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From what you have given me, yes. He probably does like you..
He is able to want your attention enough to text you tons. As an asocial person myself, that is a pretty good sign. I checked for you: I texted my partner today, but last time I (as in beginning a conversation) had a conversation with a friend must be over a week ago.
He seems to be going out of his way to show you care, and that you get the best in life. The best for you. Not for him. And has told you he likes your presence. Good. Thats practically a declaration of love, isn't it?
PS: Good luck finding a guy that doesn't think it's weird to be called cute.
You do seem to be overthinking the ASPD part a bit though. It is only a part of him, and not what defines him at all. (Not that I need to tell you that, but i find it mention-able)