In a relationship but I can't get over my first love, it's been two years but I still love him why?

the bond you have is very deep and it goes far more beyond then you would like it to be it sounds like theres a link you might need a support group seeing a therapist might help support group your not allowing yourself to sort it out and heal bring into light what is really going you need to allow your self to heal from the hurt your feeling he has healed and went on why did you break up was it him or was it you or was it both of you ask the lord to come and direct your life and support you show you how to make a better life