Me and my boyfriend is 15 and he came over while my parents weren't home 5 days ago. We weren't gonna do anything more than touching but somehow we ended up taking most of the clothes off. He didn't really go inside me but he just had his thing there but he was moving and he came. Of course we didn't use a condom because we didn't expect anything to happen. I still love him so much but i knew it was a wrong thing to do and we were both very scared after so we decided we'll not do anything like this till we are mature enough. I'm just really scared because we're not really sure if he came on me or not, and there can be a possibility of me getting pregnant. Also, my period was already late for like a month before this even happened. I think my hormones are still unbalanced so sometimes i skip a month or two. I still didn't get my period (last time was mid-december) and I'm just really worried that I can be pregnant, I dont want to ruin my life. Its only been 5 days after this happened but I feel perfectly fine. I'm worried but I dont want to tell my parents about this. Should I go buy a pregnancy test? or what should I do?
Answers (5)
Chances of you becoming pregnant are low as the sperm of your boyfriend has an even longer journey to make and also can only make a baby by meeting one of your eggs in your Fallopian tubes (the tube that goes from your overy to the womb), this means your chance of being pregnant is only during 3 to 4 days of your monthly cycle. This fertile time happends around day 14, but this does vary from woman to woman. So overal you will be very unlucky to be caught.
Most home pregnancy tests are sensitive enough to detect the horemone that tells if you are starting pregnancy, hCG in your urine on the first day your period is due.
Your body starts to produce hCG when a fertilised egg implants in your uterus (womb). HCG is secreted by the cells which will go on to form your baby's placenta. It can be detected in your urine from about six to 14 days after fertilisation. So test too early & it may not detect anything.
There are morning-after pills these can if necessary be taken up to three days after sexual intercourse. Another type can be taken up to five days following sex and will end any pregnancy.
Other option is that you visit your doctor or local clinic. They will advise you of the best things they can do, they should not tell your parents as that would break the parent/doctor confidentiality.
One bit of advice, do not ignore this & hope it goes away. A problem is nearly always better if it is dealt with early.
I hope my daughters would tell myself or their mum if an accident like yours has happend so we can help them.
We all are human & understand that power love can overtake our common sense more often than we like to admit!
I do hope this reassures & helps you.
I just noticed I said "parent/doctor confidentiality" of course I ment "patient/doctor confidentiality" sorry if this has caused any worry or confusion!
Thank you so much for the very detailed answer! i will go get a pregnancy test and hopefully.. i can make sure that im not. This really helped me and made me feel better!
Yes im getting them nextweek hopefully thanks for the answer!
I'd say most likely you are not pregnant, but the only way you can be sure is to buy a pregnancy test. It's your choice whether or not you want to tell your parents about this. If it turns out you are pregnant though, you will most likely have to. We all make mistakes, and I hope you have learnt from this one.
thank u for the answer!