Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now. It's very serious. We spend most of our time together, and we've gotten incredibly intimate. Overall, our relationship is great. Recently though, pretty complicated situations started arising. His grandmother is in the hospital (critical condition), so he decides the visit her as much as he can. I try to go with him whenever I can as well. But in consequence of this, his mother from overseas decided to fly back to where we are. Him and his mom have this (more than normal) intimate relationship... at least from what I hear from him and how he describes her. I'm ready to understand him being in the hospital and meeting his mother, of course, but it's giving me a feeling of abandonment. He says that apart from spending AT LEAST 2 weeks straight SOLO with his mom only (probably gonna be a month because they hadn't seen each other for a year). That doesn't even involve some of his free time that will get consumed in the hospital. He gives me no assurance when we'll even see each other (Its like he hasn't even considered it a big deal)(I feel like I'm being tossed aside)(Its 3 days from valentines and I got him a nice gift and he just hold me that we wont celebrate it because he's too concerned about his grandmother)...I don't know what to do. I know I need to be supportive for him but Idk why I'm feeling this way. (I do have my own abandonment issues to think about. Is it really just my issues bugging me or is something up?)
