... , flirt with me , come around saying they interested in me when I'm in a relationship. So the two part questions is one how she know I'm taken and in love with some one
The second part of this question is . Why is it that women seem swarm all over me when I'm in a relationship., but when I'm not in a relationship or in love
No women give me the time of day. . It like when I'm in love I'm like women all want me . How do they know I'm truly in love with some one? And why is it they want me only when I'm taken and in love.? If I'm out with a female friend and single no women give me time of day. How they know and why??
I'm trying to figure out how women know when I'm in a loving relationship. Women all seem to want me
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- 3+ months ago by John Paul
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- women, figure, relationship, loving, question, flirt, relationships
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Answers (2)
Hey. For the first part of your question, simply always keep your phone in your back pocket. If you feel like a girl is flirting with you, say "hang on, I have to text my girlfriend." If they continue after this there are two possibilities. They don't care you have a girlfriend, or they are simply being nice and aren't interested in you either. If you are absolutely sure it's the first, just flat out say you're sorry but you love your girlfriend and you aren't interested in betraying her. As for the second, there's actually some science behind it. Being in a good relationship can make you more confident, and therefore more appealing. Also if girls know you're in a relationship, well, we want what we can't have. There's also the possibility that it's all in your head and you just need to relax a little.
She'll know you're taken and in love with someone else if you tell her. Please say so, diplomatically, saying something like: "Thank you so much for the complement but I have a girlfriend, I'm in a committed relationship, etc. I'm not one of those guys who has a significant other and still 'plays the field'. I wouldn't expect you to respect me if I did." Your girlfriend will appreciate your faithfulness.
A lot of women might "swarm all over you" when they don't know you're with someone else. If they do know you're with someone else, you might not want to be with those kinds of people who act like "the other woman". Women like that give other women a bad name.
Who knows why women only seem to be interested in you when you're single. If you're single and want other women to pay attention to you, you might want to go out with a sister, cousin, female friend, etc. Then if other women pay attention to you, you'll be available to accept their advances.
But please don't have sex with them, unless you like paying alimony, possibly getting a sexually transmitted disease, etc. It doesn't always happen but do you want to take the chance?
:)