I tried being alone for quite some time, and i actually kind of enjoy it~ but my friends and family hassle me about it frequently. I get that it's not quite normal, but most relationships I've seen aren't quite normal either... just more accepted. I've had a boyfriend, and it was okay but not worth the trouble in my opinion. It was nice because I had known him for a while before we went out, but when guys I don't know so very well invite me on a date, I get terribly anxious- and not the good kind! I'm not a lesbian, but girls don't worry me so much so I was thinking of trying.. but that just seems wrong for the other person, yknow?
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Yep you should definitely try chicks. If you do, just let them know your curious. Tell them you've never been with a girl before and you just want to see how you like it. Trust me if you find the right girl she'll understand. And if you don't like it, then you want a guy, but your'e just not ready yet. There's plenty of time. There's better things you could worry about. Good Luck :)
Well, glad I could be some help :)
I can kinda see where your coming from i've seen plenty of "not quite normal" relationships myself I guess u can say and it kinda made me just wanna be alone because I honestly felt id be a lot happier not having to deal with that rightnow in my life and I use to get extremely anxious as well just because I felt like I didn't know what to do or say or what to expect and I think all that just comes from thinking to much and worring about things going wrong. I have a bf now though but it took me sometime to get there..I just fell like your probably not ready for anything serious at this moment but that's ok..its normal to be afraid or nervous around a guy/guys u just need to wait til you feel your ready but that doesn't make u a lesbian..if u wanna explore you options go ahead but I think what your feeling is totally normal but yeaa just have fun no matter what you decide to do.
Thanks :] that's really comforting. I don't really worry about what to say or do honestly, that parts fine. it's just the concept of being theirs i guess- it wigs me out. and i know that doesn't make me a lesbian, i just thought it might be an easier option for me to manage (even though that's a bit naive). Regardless, i'm glad it's working out for you.
thanks :] yah its not something id usually pay any mind but the holidays are coming up and family members pretty much assess my lifestyle during those... ah well! great answer