I really hate my dad. He never lets me do anything I want and won't listen to me. he's never positive towards me and he thinks I'm below him by like I can't talk to him. He is also really moody one moment he is throwing a fit because I told him that plastic bags aren't recyclable and the next moment he's smiling and asking about my pubic hair (sorry for that btw). It's like God dropped His brain in a toilet and decided to just see what would happen. He likes my younger sister more too he is always like "Why can't you be more like Emma?" and he bought her an iPad for her birthday. My mom isn't like my dad but she still likes my sister more than me. I don't know if I'm being a brat or what but I just spend all my extra time locked in my room.
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he sounds like you can't tell him anything he isn't sure about what hes doing kinda suffering from not really knowing how to be a dad and you bring up something he believes to be true and it really isn't but it made him mad because it came out of your mouth and he should have known that just by dealing with recycleables and he doesn't know how to handle it so he gets mad when he already knows you are smart and you already know this information he just doesn't know how to handle it no your not a brat your just inquisitive thats all need to know information thats all knowledgeable thats all dad has to except you for who you are and you have to except dad for who he is and go on from there
Im not saying your not going through a lot, but your dad is there unlike some, and he hasnt (that i know of) completly ignored you , starved you....my point is he could be worse. Way worse. He could be better, but theres no such thing as a perfect dad. He needs to work on it, yeah. You should try to open up to him more, and not say you hate him.