Okay to start off I was dating my high school sweet heart for 2 years. I broke up with him because I found out he was cheating. I fell n love again. we were very happy. planning a wedding and everything. we haven't known each other long but we are now expecting a baby. my ex continued to beg me back and I didn't tell my boyfriend because I didn't want him to worry. 2 days before were supposed to move to Texas together my ex to him we have been sleeping together which is a lie. Mind my ex has been engaged twice and caught both cheating on him. He didn't believe me when I told him I didn't do anything. now because of this I had to move back in with my parents. He drove me 8 hours to my family's house and on the way the ride we acted like ourselves. Happy. but now he is gone and says he doesn't know what he feels anymore. I am terrified. I love this man. we were planning our future. what should I do? what is he thinking? I just need help to understand
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Hello. Looks like you're ex has caused quite a problem for you...honestly explain the situation to him, call him and ask to meet up and then explain everything to him, do you still have those text messaged your ex sent you? If so, show him and let him see in his own eyes that you have been rejecting your ex, remind him you love him and promise him that you would never do anything to hurt him. Tell him that you are not his ex's, you would not cheat.
At the moment he is probably extremely confused and is wondering who to believe, you, his beautiful fiancé who just so happens to be the love of his life or her ex, who in his eyes has no reason to lie as you have not told him about the texts your ex has been sending you. That to him will look odd and therefore of course he will assume your ex is telling the truth as in his eyes you would have told him your ex had been in touch if you weren't cheating.
This is why you need to ring him asap so that he knows that you haven't made all this up on the spot as you wouldn't have had time to and show him the texts your ex sent you and make him understand.
I hope this helps you, I really do.
Congratulations on your baby and getting married, I hope your ex does not spoil this for you.
Love Kelsie xxx