im 13 and i dont know if i should wear a bikini! i have tankini but it makes me look like 20 yrs older!! i asked my mom if could get a bikini but she thinks it makes me looks older too. i hate wearing a 1 piece because they look wrong on me big time. the only thing that looks good on me is the bikini and i cant wear because and every time i bing up the subject to my mom she and i has this big argument i don't know what to do!!!!!