im 13 and i dont know if i should wear a bikini! i have tankini but it makes me look like 20 yrs older!! i asked my mom if could get a bikini but she thinks it makes me looks older too. i hate wearing a 1 piece because they look wrong on me big time. the only thing that looks good on me is the bikini and i cant wear because and every time i bing up the subject to my mom she and i has this big argument i don't know what to do!!!!!
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I am 13 as well and I think that wearing a bikini is totally fine! But because your mom says no I guess there really isn't an option! Unless you try to compromise with her. But if you go somewhere where you would like to wear a bikini and ur mom isn't there you could barrow one from a friend behind her back! But until then your mom has too much power!! Sorry I know how you feel!!!
I think that if you feel confident in your body wearing a bikini, then you can definitely wear one. Talk to your mom about the reasons that you should be able to wear one, rather than complaining to her. If this does not work, give it time. I know that it will seem like forever, but she will be more likely to give you the privilege of wearing a bikini later if you don't pry now.