Me and my girl have been together for awhile..we met online through her cousin ho i already new and has been in an ldr for awhile..at first she portayed herself as a girl who is somewhat girly girl, and i portrayed myself as a tomboy who dresses in guys clothes and was gonna cut my hair after i graduates high school. A few month into it she switched all of a sudden wearing hats dressing like me but kind of not matchin things and all (ratchet) as i think..i confronted her asking why she would portray herself if that not what she was and she said cuz u I liked it n she didnt know what to do..we finally agreed she would not dress that way over the top..a few month later i finally hung out with her and she dressed as a somewhat girly girl n one day she tried to dress like me n i think she was hopin id jus let it go but i didnt..i wasnt attracted to her..so she went back to the jeans n tshirt girl look..now that im back home shes going back to the tomboy shit and always brings up how i got my haircut n I dress like a boy and all that but iv been the same since we dated and never changed..i got my haircut but unlike me she is back and forth from lovey dovey bout it to bashing me on it..where as ill straight up say i hate it..anywaysss lol i know personality is bigger then looks and i lover but i fell in love with her when she was the girl type..anyways what should I do?? im tired of having the same argument!!!