I obviously don't think I'm girly or tomboy, nor seem like either in public. So no one should think I'm girly whatsoever. My appearance is girly, but I don't act so much like one. I have ungirly quirks like not talking much, bad posture, scratching, picking dry skin, no eye contact, not covering my mouth, being a bit messy, and being awkward. But I have decent manners, cross my legs sometimes, and an OK posture.
Personality wise, I seem quiet, calm, cute, aloof, eccentric or sweet to people. But I usually have a somewhat firm low voice and it's only high pitched sometimes. My grammar is decent so I barely say that 'like, OMG' shit, but also I don't cuss much IRL and it surprises some people when I do. I mumble however, and sometimes speak a bit too fast or slow. My voice gets really quiet at times you have to lean in.
I don't have many girly interests. I avoid doing girly activities like makeup and shit, but I barely exercise since I'm not a very active sporty kid. My pastime is staying in my room and using the Internet on my PC/iPad. I don't really go out, just stay home. I also like hanging out, art/crafts, anime, songs, cool videos, reading, puzzles/games, writing, nature, and sports for fun. I like joining foreign language clubs, volunteering, human rights, and poetry club. But I get lazy so I miss a lot of meetings. I have friends of both gender, but still more girls than guys. At home, I'm a loner who has little social life and doesn't contact anyone much.
I'm not a girly girl? Just in between?
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- 3+ months ago by DogsCats
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- girl, public, feminine, girls, appearance, tomboy, personality
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No bashing or any BS posts, but fairly intelligent answers
But if, by any chance at all, you say I'm girly, than why?
Responses (2)
If you are a girl, then you may be girly! There are many different types of women out there, some comfortable with the label and some not. If it's a word you think helps define yourself, great! If not, that's great too! Overall, the most important thing is to not get caught up in labels. You seem like an interesting person to meet and it would be an injustice to reduce and confine yourself to fitting into a box of personality tropes. If you think the word fits you, use it. If not, that's perfectly fine.
I'm exactly the same i come across as a girly sometimes in my appearance but act like a tom-boy i hardly ever wear make up because its a waste of time and im always outside climbing trees getting muddy or setting things on fire. id much rather go quad biking than shopping but i also like clothes and style, so i call myself a girly tomboy i like to do sports but not a lot because its tiring. im always messy and never organised it surprises people sometimes and i hardly swear(cuss) either. i love reading and climbing onto roofs or finding a quiet place up high somewhere(tree or roof) to read and i hate ignorant stupid people from school. i struggle making friends but im fine with all of the ones i have. im quiet but have a feisty personality which sometimes gets me into trouble . i like learning french but not one to do homework and that. my friends are mix between girls and guys but i prefer hanging out with guys because there is less drama.