I'm male 24, a loner, I work 3 nights a week (alone), have very few friends and no social life but really want to try and get out there a bit more. I have always found socialising hard. Trouble is, I lack confidence. I tend to spend 90% at home where I live with my parents. Whats the best way to get out of a rut like this? Also, I fear I'll remain single forever so whats the best way to meet a girl that would understand the kind of person I am and could help change me or raise my confidence perhaps? I have no ego and very low self esteem but am often told I'm good looking but find it very hard to take compliments seriously. Hope thats enough information. Any answer would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.