I met this girl a year ago, I'm 17 and she is 18, we became super close and I was almost sure she liked me. I was a bit reluctant because she had planned to study in another country and I did not want to be with her if was going to lose her (I know I was stupid and inmature). In august she decided she was not going to leave so I started trying to be with her, but over the last 3 or 4 months (after finishing school) she has been colder, we used to text each other everyday, now we barely do, and it is almost always me the one who starts. We used to go out and she was super warm, now she is distant. She had some family problems that depressed her and made things worse, and she wont tell me anything. We have a friend in common, so I asked for her help, and she said that this girl did not want any boyfriend. I think she lost interest in me, and I know that our friend said she did not want a boyfriend but I am sure that if a had not been reluctant at the beginning I would have succeded. What can I do to get her attention back? I really like her and I regret doubting it when she was planning to leave :(