I have no motivation I used to be very strong but I'm not anymore. I feel like I need to get my grades up because i might fail, I used to be called smart and get great grades by the way. I feel like I need to take care of my self more and I have so much time on my hands but instead of improving i fall back and procrastinate my work or just sit and watch some anime? please Help me
I'm Lost Need motivation help?
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- 3+ months ago by Anonymous...
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I'm no expert at this kind of stuff, but I can kind of relate. I would suggest maybe setting up a schedule so you actually know what to do, and if you feel like you don't want to follow it, remind yourself of the potential negative consequences due to your actions.
Set certain goals that you feel obligated to achieve, like "Okay, I'll study for 30 minutes for that Mandarin assessment coming up!"
That probably sounds really cheesy and you've heard a million times already but it works. I'm literally forced by my parents to study at least one hour and a half during the weekdays and a total of nine hours during the weekend, and those A's and A+'s just can stop rolling in :)
My parents also don't allow me to watch stuff that's "not educational" during the weekdays and limit me to it during the weekends.
Usually when I get bad grades at something I suddenly get alert and it forces me to kick up into high gear for that certain class, but that's just me.
Very common issue, hope the following advice helps. I have portions of experience in this area.
What you want to do is establish many goals, short and long term, for you to achieve. Working towards these goals and achieving them will help you. I want to do this then this get to this. Be sure to consider how you are currently being perceived amongst others and what thoughts they might have of you based off of the choices you are making. Think about the impact you want your life to have on other people.
You are on a very small stage in a vast arena. The choices you make today will affect you and people around you in time. What are you doing for yourself and others. How are you helping yourself and people around you in your position. Reading quotes and watching motivational speeches are also helpful.
You have the resources and ability to change your life and help yourself and the people around you. It is completely up to you to make changes to positively impact your future.
The significance of life is determined only by your wisdom and courage you are the custodian of your life's meaning.
I meant "can't stop rolling in" in lol.